A majority of Americans plan to celebrate Valentine’s Day on Feb. 14. Whether you are marking a milestone, newly committed or single, Long Island matchmakerMaureen Tara Nelson, CEO ofMTN Matchmaking, offers advice.
Valentine’s Day traditionally falls on the man. He definitely should do the traditional flowers, chocolates, dinner. At the six-month mark, I would definitely recommend getting some sort of jewelry. The woman should always do something cute, not necessarily expensive, but sentimental, romantic.
They’re the ones who need to consider it more. I’m a big believer in giving a handwritten card every year of all the reasons why he loves her, and she should do the same.
They might not have a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but they do have a valentine — themselves. They need to love themselves.
Step the bar up. Wear something sexy, fun, romantic. I bought myself a sleeveless pink dress with red hearts all over it. Men, definitely pink shirts, purple shirts, red shirts.
Try something different, because you want to add as much excitement as possible.
The greatest gift is getting engaged.
Definitely in high school, in college, in your 20s. When you’re 30 and up, no more games. Now you have to put some sort of plan in motion on how you are going to find love.
Flowers. There is no excuse not to get flowers.
Don’t be cheap on Valentine’s Day. It will ruin the relationship.
Source: LI Press
