A 44-year-old divorced woman says she's attractive, successful, financially independent, and owns a beautiful home. So why can't she find a man who wants a serious relationship? Her question reveals something I've been talking about for years: far too many women have absolutely no idea what men actually want in a long-term partner. In this episode of **You Asked. Men Answered.**, we're tackling the difference between attracting a man and finding one who actually wants to commit. Why don't men necessarily care about a woman's career, income, or financial independence? What makes a woman relationship material? And why are more men deciding that staying single is preferable to getting married again? We're also talking about dating after divorce, unrealistic expectations, the difference between physical attraction and genuine compatibility, and something society seems to have forgotten: men have standards, needs, and expectations too. **MEN:** I want your honest answers in the comments. What makes a woman worth committing to? What would make you walk away from an otherwise attractive woman? **LADIES:** If you genuinely want to understand men, read what they're telling you. You might discover that what men actually want is very different from what you've been told. Subscribe to Men Need To Be Heard for more episodes of You Asked. Men Answered., where real questions from women get honest answers from men. #men #menneedtobeheard #doublestandards #datingadvice #relationships #marriage #divorce #modernDating #YouAskedMenAnswered 🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world Here are links to even more great stuff! 📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims o