Why would any man pay money to attend a dating event when he's already tired of rejection, disrespect, and the risks that come with modern dating? In this video, I respond to a woman who's encouraging men to give dating events another chance. And here's the thing: I actually respect what she's trying to do. She makes a couple of good points, but she also demonstrates just how little some women understand about why men are walking away from dating altogether. From rejection and public humiliation to concerns about false allegations and the potential consequences of approaching the wrong woman, we break down why men see dating events very differently than women do. Are dating events really safer than approaching a woman at a bar? Does attending one guarantee the women are single? And why should men keep putting themselves out there when they've decided the potential rewards simply aren't worth the risks? It's time to look at dating events from the male perspective. MEN: Have you ever attended a singles event or speed-dating event? What was your experience? Would you ever go again? WOMEN: Take some time to read the men's responses. You might gain a better understanding of why so many men have stopped trying. Subscribe to Men Need To Be Heard for honest conversations about men's issues, modern dating, relationships, and the double standards men face. #men #menneedtobeheard #datingevents #moderndating #mensissues #doublestandards 🔴 Join me LIVE every Wednesday from 4:00-5:30pm ET over on @TheBoyMeetsSquirrelShow where my partner Lindsay aka @squirrelygirl1988 talk about the issues men and boys face in today's modern society. Come be part of the conversation, have a few laughs and learn more about how you can help bring change to the world Here are links to even more great stuff! 📘 Check Out My Best Selling Book: Unveiling The Forgotten: The Plight of Male Victims of Domestic Violence & How We Can Help Them Here: http://unveilingtheforgotten.com/ 👬 J