Patrick Bet-David reacts to a man who says he canceled a $200,000 wedding after a conversation about the Lindsay Clancy case exposed what he believed was a fundamental difference in values with his fiancée. The man says the disagreement changed how he viewed her judgment and whether he could trust her as the future mother of his children. PBD’s broader point is that losing money on a wedding can be painful, but discovering a serious values conflict before marriage may save you from a far greater cost later.