Keith Urban and Nicole Kidman's divorce is finally behind them. But both are still figuring out life after nearly two decades together.
The country star has been honest about how hard the transition has been, especially missing the everyday moments with their daughters, Sunday Rose (17) and Faith Margaret (15).
Sources close to Urban say he's trying to do things differently this time — choosing cooperation over conflict and focusing on keeping family life calm and respectful. That's a big shift for someone who has spent years juggling touring, creative work, and fatherhood. And it's not lost on people close to him that this change seems heartfelt rather than staged.
Urban and Kidman finalized their divorce in January 2026, ending their 19‑year marriage.
Part of the settlement included aparenting plandesigned to keep things stable for the girls. Nicole has primary residential custody, with the daughters spending about 306 days a year with her. While Urban has them for roughly 59 days — generally every other weekend.
Sources cited byMandatorysay this arrangement has grounded Urban. Being away from daily family routines has been tough. That experience has reportedly influenced how he wants to co‑parent.
Instead of clashing over schedules or past issues, insiders say Urban is seeking a partnership with Kidman. Not to rekindle their relationship, but to be there for rhe kids rather than pain or ego.
Part of Urban's mindset shift involves something people now call 'conscious uncoupling'. The term is popularised by Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin to describe an intentional, cooperative separation. Not dwelling on resentment and instead finding a way forward with dignity and cooperation.
Urban reportedly wants birthdays, school events, and family holidays to feel as unified as possible. Even if the family isn't under one roof anymore. Friends say this isn't just a PR line. He genuinely wants his daughters to feel secure and loved from both sides.
This approach mirrors the official parenting plan, which explicitly asks the former couple to avoid speaking poorly about one another in front of their children. Plus, to support each child's relationship with both parents.
Source: International Business Times UK
