Prince Harry and Meghan Markle's reaction to King Charles and Donald Trump's bond is being discussed against a long and publicly fraught backdrop. Harry, 41, and Meghan, 44,stepped back from royal duties in 2020and relocated to the US, where their criticism of the monarchy and subsequent media projects have deepened rifts with the royal family. King Charles' four-day state visit to Washington and New York his first to America in nearly a decade was billed as a diplomatic exercise, but it has also reopened old wounds over loyalty, public image and who is seen to stand with whom.
The monarch, 77, travelled with Queen Camilla, 78, and was greeted with full ceremonial honours, including a White House reception. Images circulated widely of Charles laughing and appearing relaxed alongside Trump and First Lady Melania Trump, scenes that were keenly noted not just by commentators but, it seems, by the Sussexes themselves.
The visit, which included a formal state dinner and a landmark address to Congress, has been widely framed as a success for British soft power. Yet the optics have cut differently for Harry and Meghan, given Trump's repeated public jabs at them and his past ridicule of their marriage. According to one insider quoted by OK!, the mix of diplomacy and domestic tension has been especially painful to watch from the sidelines.
'There's a growing feeling that this situation has affected both Harry and Meghan far more deeply than they initially anticipated,' the source said. 'Watching Charles appear so relaxed and publicly aligned with Trump, who has openly ridiculed their marriage, has struck a nerve, has brought up a lot of difficult emotions and feels, to them, like a very personal affront. It's been, as they would say, very triggering for them.'
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The emotional strain, those close to the couple suggest, is rooted in a familiar conflict between Harry's intellectual understanding of his father's job and the more visceral sense of being left undefended.
The same insider added: 'Harry can intellectually accept that his father's role requires him to engage with whoever is in power, regardless of past comments or personal tensions. But emotionally, that understanding doesn't soften the impact. From his and Meghan's perspective, the absence of any pushback or acknowledgment of the criticism directed at them only reinforces a narrative they feel is unfair, and that's been particularly hard for both of them to process.'
Another source painted a picture of a couple trying to steady themselves while feeling exposed yet again. Harry, they said, may be making a deliberate effort to stay calm and focus on longer-term goals, reminding himself that kings must work with global leaders of all stripes. Behind closed doors, however, the pressure is said to be mounting.
According to the second source, 'the situation has resurfaced old wounds and left both him and Meghan feeling vulnerable and under scrutiny again. For Meghan especially, there's a real sense of frustration that the negative commentary about them from Trump has been allowed to stand without any form of response or defence. That silence, from her perspective, only deepens the discomfort and reinforces the feeling that they are being left exposed to ongoing criticism. She and Harry are essentially suffering a form of PTSD over Charles' U.S. visit.'
None of these accounts have been confirmed by the couple or Buckingham Palace, so they should be treated with caution. Still, they echo a pattern Harry has previously described in interviews, of feeling unsupported when under attack from powerful voices.
Source: International Business Times UK
